Retirement: How To Work Together As A Couple
June 13th, 2009 by MilesVickstrom
There are those days when we sigh out loud at the thought of living the easy life when we retire. But planning our retirement just might consist of more work than we expect, especially if we plan to retire with our significant other.
You and your soul mate might have very different plans, like at what age should we retire or even what activities to participate in. Being since you will spend significantly more time with your spouse during retirement, you should definitely discuss these potential problems sooner rather than later. Although, for most of us that seems like planning a bit too far in advance.
Here are some issues that should be addressed with your spouse before retirement:
Time To Retire. More often than not, couples tend to retire at the same age. It is, after all, nice to have some company when you travel. According to Alicia Munnell, director of the Center for Retirement Research at Boston College, joint retirement can create some financial problems for women. The average woman is three years younger than her husband, and, in general, women tend to outlive men.
A little under 59% of all women start receiving social security at the age of 62 (the number for men is 53%). When benefits are taken at age 62, monthly payments are permanently reduced. If you could wait until the full retirement age (which can range from 65 – 67), the size of your monthly payments increase significantly. Also, women that work longer accumulate more in their 401(K) plans, which for the most part are smaller than their male counterparts.
Retirement Destinations. According to consulting firm McKinley & Co., more than 90% of current retirees remain in their existing homes.
An increase in housing appreciation has led many baby boomers to use their home equity as a source of income during retirement. In a recent survey, a reverse mortgage lender found that 26% of males were likely to sell their homes in retirement, but only 15% of women stated they were inclined to move.
A solution to that discrepancy is to buy or rent a second home in the community where one spouse wants to move, then live there part of the year. However, sometimes married couples do agree on moving, but disagree on where to move. Start researching retirement destinations years before you plan to stop working so that all options are exhausted (in a sense) and an agreement can be made.
What To Do. About 80% of baby boomers plan to work part-time during retirement. Since retirement plans for most baby boomers have been somewhat lacking, that option for extra income is a wise choice. However, working will conflict with certain activities such as traveling. If you want to take a road trip, and your spouse is working, there might not be any flexibility for them to join you.
Also, it is a good idea to personally write down retirement goals, making an “intentions list” so you and your spouse can compare notes, find commonalities and work out the kinks in the process. Even if you and your spouse cannot agree on a time or place for retirement, there should at the very least be mutual goals for saving as much as possible for that well deserved retirement.
If you are curious as to how much you should or can save, visit http://www.aarp.org and type “retirement calculator.” The calculator can give you a rough estimate as to what you would need in order to reach your retirement goals.
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“Your” Money Matters By Carl Hampton
From the Author of “From Credit Despair To Credit Millionaire”
Carl Hampton
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Posted in retirement | 9 Comments »
June 13th, 2009 at 3:58 pm
my boyfriend and I together?
me and my boyfriend have been living together for a couple of years his family is having a retirement party for one of his uncles all of his family will be there including his grandmother who he haven't seen since he was small he have not officially invited me to go and I really believe he don't plan on taking me should I be upset by this cause I feel like I should be invited to this function
June 13th, 2009 at 9:00 pm
If you are living together that makes you a lot more than just a gf. If you aren't invited on his behalf – dumb the bastard!
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June 13th, 2009 at 9:02 pm
Yes, you should be mad because maybe he not inviting you cause he have not tell his parents about you or probably he asked you
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June 13th, 2009 at 9:04 pm
well maybe he doesn't want u 2 meet his family or he just doesn't completely like u
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June 13th, 2009 at 9:06 pm
Don't be mad or upset because that will ruin everything over a retirement party.Have you tried telling him that or are you just suspecting him to ask.Matbe he's not ready for you to meet his family or maybe he's just nervous!
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June 13th, 2009 at 9:08 pm
yeah i would be upset if i were you, since you've lived with him for so long. it's not like you two just got together yesterday! but maybe he thought it would be boring for you and you'd have more fun doing something else why he was at the party. maybe you can ask him about it to see what he was thinking.
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June 13th, 2009 at 9:10 pm
that is just mest up if he does not take you!!i think you should go b/c if yall are together!! well then you could meet everbody!!
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June 13th, 2009 at 9:12 pm
Strange … you have lived with him for two years and you still expect to be officially invited. I would have thought that by now it would go without saying. It also seems odd to me that you can't just talk to him about this. You guys are practically married after all.
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June 13th, 2009 at 9:14 pm
i don't think you should be upset . maybe he thinks that you will feel uncomfortable and that's why he hasn't told you anything. tha best you have t do is go and ask him so baby do you want me t come with you….and just check out his reaction.
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